The other day I attended my nieces weeding. Not that unusual except she met her bow on the internet through a dating site.

This has been the third wedding I have attended in so many years where the couple had met on a dating site.

I was thinking about this article at the time so thought I would ask my niece and her new husband some casual questions at a dinner when they returned from their honeymoon.

Me: Why did you use a dating site

Niece: As you know I have a very busy life and trying to meet people to form relationships was very hard with my work schedule. I actually saw a movie where a young girl registered her mother and that gave me the idea.

I can check out different profiles and strike up conversations at any time while waiting for a plane at the airport or sitting at home relaxing.

Me: How did you choose the dating site?

Niece: As I started searching I noticed that dating sites these days to specialize a lot more than they did before.

You can find ones for Christians, people in the armed services, business professionals and also some pretty way out ones. In the end a friend on Facebook recommended one so I went with that. I think this is probably the best way to go as she had already done all the research and liked the one she was with.

Me: So what were the steps you did?

Niece: Well firstly I picked a young professionals dating site because I travel a lot and wanted someone whom understood.

I listed what I was looking for and wrote a list rather than doing it then and there online.

So I wanted someone local as I had tried long distance relationships and they never really worked out. I wanted someone who could hold a conversation, had similar interests and was a similar age. I guess this differ a lot from person to person but writing it out and discussing with my friends really clarified what I was looking for.

Me: So you told your friends and what did they think?

Niece: A couple were quite concerned for me because of some of the stories you hear but others who had actually tried it were very supportive.

As one friend said jerks can only be nice for so long and I found that to be true however genuine people looking to get together tend to be that way online also.

People think because it is online you can lie etc but in the end you will hopefully meet each other so best to just be who you are. The thing is to have some fun, be real and use it as a filter.

Me: So how did you actually meet your partner?

Niece: I was actually chatting to a few guys who matched my profile however he just stood out as someone genuine and was interested in me.

We had a lot of great conversations and were both travelling and working hard and then one day he was travelling to the same city I was so we met up and the rest is history.

Me: So what advice would you give to others looking at online dating?

Niece: I would advise pick a reputable site, ask friends for recommendations, try and find a specialty site that has similar people on it, write out your profile and review it a few times so your profile is exactly what you want.

Once you have joined make sure you have plenty of conversations before you actually organize a meeting.  This can be great fun but also weeds out those who are in it for other things.

So that’s what my niece had to say in brief.

As her Uncle and in my later years I would have never guessed that this is the way things would have gone. I certainly would never have tried it but now if I ever find myself single I will have to search for an oldies dating site, of which there are many, and give it a go.

So what do you think?.

Are dating sites the way to meet your partner or just a place for desperate people to have one last try?

What does my Friends car breaking down have to do with healthy relationships

One day I was talking with some colleagues in the office about the different relationships they were experiencing. One of the girls had just broken up with her boyfriend and was quite distressed.

In the middle of the conversation I got a call from some friends of mine that were very distraught because they were  stuck on the freeway. Their car had broken down because the fan belt had snapped and they did not know what to do.

I quickly rang a tow truck and organized for them to get picked up.

What does this have to do with relationships?

As I was sitting there waiting to hear that they had been rescued I was thinking about the similarity to my friends and this girl who’s relationship had suffered a similar fate.

1. Without regular Maintenance things can go wrong.

If you do not regularly maintain your car then the result can be a breakdown.

The same applies to relationships. It is not simply a matter of having someone in your life but actually interacting with them and consciously taking steps to keep the relationship vibrant and alive. It is necessary to do some regular checks to make sure small things do not become huge problems.

It is often the small things that cause a break down.

2. Don’t leave it for the other person.

My friends share the car and had thought the other person was fixing any problems.

I have found in my relationships that assuming that others in the relationship were doing certain things has been the cause of many problems that could have been avoided.

Example: My girlfriend normally cooks the meals however if I notice she is tired I will either prepare dinner or go buy takeaway. This not only gives her the sense that I care but also avoids resentment in stressful situations.

3. Plan your Relationship.

We drive our cars with a purpose which is usually to reach a destination.

A healthy relationship involves setting destinations as points of reference. When you talk with your friends you will notice that as the relationship grows it is because you share certain things in common where you had fun and enjoyed each others company.

This can be a movie, dinner at home or in a restaurant, a games night, a walk in the park. They can be done together or in a group. Whatever you do together result in a point of reference in a relationship and create strong bonds.

If you don’t plan these little adventures they wont happen.

4.  Random acts of  kindness.

Many times we will give to charities or other worthy causes but when did you just give your partner a few dollars to spend on themselves.

Often in our relationships we are so busy just living life that we miss out on the benefits of a random act of kindness.

These are things you don’t have to do but create strong bonds in a relationship. Sending your partner off to a spa, buying them their favorite CD, bringing home their favorite coffee or drink all build to grow a strong relationship.

5. Making Decisions and being fair.

Relationships should be give and take. Taking turns in making decisions, be it as simple as choosing a movie to watch or a place to eat at. This means that you’re not keeping count of how many times the other person has made the decision for the two of you as a couple, and you’re not turning the decision making process into a power struggle as to who should get his way.

6. Separate Identities.

This means compromising in situations where there is a difference in interest. This doesn’t have to end up with one losing their identity just to give way to the other person. Both partners should still be able to maintain time for their own interest like when they started with the relationship.

7. Communication is the Key

As humans the way we interact is through talking and communicating. How deep you can do this usually determines the strength of your relationship.

At the beginning of a relationship it is usually in the form of banter and small talk however as the relationship grows we share on more intimate topics. This can be a make or break situation.

Having the sincerity to speak what’s on your mind, provided you’ve thought it out thoroughly enough to know that what you say will be taken in a good, constructive way.

What makes a relationship unhealthy?

A relationship starts becoming unhealthy once it becomes mean, disrespectful, controlling and hurtful.  A person who has grown up watching physical and emotional abuse inside their homes will most likely think that it’s normal in a relationship.

A healthy relationship will have the opposite attributes and using some of the suggestions above can turn you relationship around.

Relationships normally need work.

It may have started with an overwhelming feeling of love for one another, but then again, keeping that love is a totally different thing altogether. Understanding you and your partner’s differences, accepting them and working around those differences will make your relationship easier to handle.

Just like the friends car who had neglected regular maintenance and the girl at work who had let all the little things in life destroy her relationship it is important to realize that relationships involve people and all their differences.

Organizing to do lots of little things together away from the hassles of everyday life will build a strong relationship whether with a partner or friends.

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Male Sexual Health Past and Present

Since the beginning of time people have been struggling with sex and especially male sexual health.

In some societies it is openly discussed and in other is considered a taboo subject. Whether it is taboo or not it is essential that we discuss it to give men freedom.

We are not all the same.

I have a friend who would never go swimming with us and we never knew why. One day we were sitting on the bank of the river where we were swimming and a visiting friend took off his sweatpants and jumped in the water.

My friend looked at him and took off his shoes and jumped into the river to my surprise.

What Changed?

We noticed when the visitor took off his shoes that he had deformed feet and when my friend saw this he realized he was not a freak but there were others in the same position. He had only 3 toes on each foot.

That afternoon it was incredible hearing the two chatting about their experiences and I realized why he would never do certain things with us.

I mentioned this story to say this.

What we are going to look at now are some of the mens sexual health problems and we looked at the situation above to show you that most of us are like the rest of us.

Fear is a horrible thing in many cases and locks us away from friends and family so just deal with the problems, get the information and take action.

Erectile Dysfunction

Until the late 1990s, people rarely spoke openly about erectile dysfunction (also called impotence). But all that changed in 1998 when the “little blue pill,” hit the market. The first safe, effective, and easy-to-use treatment for erectile dysfunction, Viagra brought the problem out of the bedroom and into the doctor’s office.

Sexually Transmitted Disease

STDs are a worldwide public health concern because there is more opportunity for STDs to be spread as more people travel and engage in sexual activities. It is important to make sure you protect yourself against these STD’s by taking the appropriate action.

Impotence

This is often linked with erectile dysfunction however impotence can actually occur from a number of factors such as depression, stress and sometimes because you are in the wrong place at the wrong time.

Mens health is more about getting in touch with the inner man and pushing down that ego. If something feels wrong then it probably is.

Learn to get in touch with your feelings, a horrible thing I know, and if you need help go get some advise from someone you trust.

Aside from the obvious need to be informed about the dangers of sexually transmitted disease, men should also be educated about the women’s sexuality and women’s needs. Unlike men, the sexual functions of women are influenced by a number of factors, and not the normal rise in libido.

It is a known fact, especially in poor countries, that what goes around as knowledge about sexual health is nothing short of a myth. Often, young boys and girls rely on the peer group to get information about sexual health, or about sex itself.

But for men, whether they live in a poor country or in a developed nation, sexual problems must still be addressed by going to a sexual health clinic. Erectile dysfunction is not just a physical problem. It is also linked to emotional and psychological distress. While men who suffer from erectile dysfunction still have the ability to father a child, they do encounter challenges in sustaining their relationships and even their own self-esteem. By getting professional help, men with erectile dysfunction can benefit from science-based information and even medications.

Sexual health is, above all, about maintaining physical health, safety in intimacy, and sustaining good relationships with those we love.

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It wasn’t long ago that seeing an elderly couple getting it on in the movies was a rarity.

The oldest members of the baby boom generation were in their 20s during the heyday of the 1960s sexual revolution, fostered in part by the advent of the birth control pill.

During that time, sexual attitudes and practices shifted dramatically. Now these boomers are once again transforming the sexual landscape, challenging views on sexuality and aging. As a result, the once widespread myths that people in their 60s and beyond shouldn’t, can’t, and wouldn’t want to have sex are fading away.

Intimacy with your partner is not determined by age. It is a part of life and slowly people are starting to realize that good sexual health is a way of staying healthy and improving any relationship.

Sex and sexuality communicate a great deal: affection, love and esteem, warmth, sharing, and bonding. These gifts are as much the right of older adults as they are of those who are much younger.

Naturally, senior sex can present challenges, and you may feel discouraged by physical or emotional issues in your way. But these problems are not insurmountable; with better understanding and an open mind, you can enjoy a gratifying sex life well into your later years.

As a senior, the two things that may have brought the greatest joy are children and career. In many cases these are no longer as prevalent in your everyday life. Personal relationships often take on a greater significance, and sex can be an important way of connecting. Senior sex has the power to:

Improve mental and physical health. Senior sex can burn fat, cause the brain to release endorphins, and drastically reduce anxiety.

Increase lifespan. Through its health-improving benefits, a good senior sex life can add years to your life.

Solidify relationships. Senior sex is a chance to express the closeness of your deepest relationship.

Give refuge. Senior sex gives you a chance to escape from the sometimes-harsh realities of the world.

Sexual Changes with Age

The primary physiological changes that occur in both men and women are due to the change in hormone levels; testosterone levels in men and estrogen levels in women. The gradual decrease in these hormones causes a variety of changes in the physical ability to perform sexually; however, these changes can be overcome with time, patience and communication.

Awareness of the sexual needs of older persons is an important quality-of-life issue. Health-care providers need to be open to discussing sexual needs of older persons and providing treatment where appropriate.

Education of society and increased awareness of sexuality in elders is a key component of sexual health in the future.

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In today’s electronic world meeting people has never been so easy.

Unfortunately the risks of using this type of media have also increased so more people are reverting to the older style matchmaking agencies and having great success.

These agencies have also adopted the digital platform in most cases but offer much more personal contact and support than the traditional dating sites.

Many specialize for different groups.

Unlike the old sites where it is all for one and one for all the new niche matchmaking sites specialize for different groups within the society. Some handle the business professional, single moms, older groups etc.

I had been trying to meet women at bars and other hang outs, but I wasn’t able to find the kind of women I wanted to be with the specialized agency gave me the opportunity to meet women that match my profile and that I already had similar interests to talk to them about.
-Bob

Matchmaking agencies act in a professional manner and conduct the dating process accordingly. These services look for compatibility between people registered with them by studying all the intimate details provided by both parties.

“Matchmaking should have been dead by now,” said Mark Brooks of Online Personals Watch, a Web site that’s been tracking Internet dating of all kinds since 2004.

Instead, the opposite has happened, he said. Matchmakers not only have survived but are thriving, having been aided and legitimized by the entity that was supposed to have killed them off — the Internet.

Like social networking, which had many dating industry experts inaccurately predicting the demise of paid Internet dating sites, Internet dating hasn’t killed matchmaking, but fed it. In fact, the three go hand in hand, leading relationship-minded singles to ever higher levels of paid service.

Though social networking sites such as Facebook may bring people together and do it for free, there’s no guarantee that those brought-together people are available and looking for a relationship. And though Internet dating sites such as Yahoo Personals do a better job of bringing together singles who are motivated to get together because they are paying to find dates, they don’t always do a good job of sorting out the serious people from the players, or even to help individuals select people who are truly good for them.

Personalized matchmakers promise to do just that. Of course, they also charge a higher price — anywhere from $1,000 to $100,000, depending on the exclusivity of the service, the number of matches they’ve said they’ll provide and how willing they are to go the extra mile.

The Guinness Book of World Records listed Orly Hod (Orly the Matchmaker) – whose fees run up to $100,000 – as the world’s priciest matchmaker.

Matchmaking services are a perfect for the busy Professionals

Most busy professionals don’t have the time and resources for meeting other single, successful people outside of their own office, industry or social circle. A matchmaker has unique access to quality people.

A personal matchmaker can screen and pre-qualify the right matches for you similar to the way an executive recruiter screens candidates for a specific job.

It’s all about TARGET MARKETING.

A matchmaker caters to commitment-minded single men and women. Whether the goal is marriage or an exclusive relationship, an introduction service takes you beyond simply meeting new people. Its sole purpose is to introduce you to a sufficient number of pre-screened individuals who are more likely to be suitable matches.

A matchmaker represents many intangible aspects of a person’s identity beyond what a simple photo and vital statistics could ever convey. And nobody likes the arrogance of someone tooting his or her own horn. Instead of bragging about yourself and all that you have to offer, let the experts do it for you in a much more objective and credible way.

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Why are some people born natural flirts and others couldn’t charm the backside of a bus if their life depended on it?

Flirting is, at its most basic, a way to meet potential partners and see if they are compatible.

Flirting is an art requiring confidence without being over the top. A successful flirt knows how to get the balance just right; too much and there is a real danger you will be labeled as “slimy” (if you’re a man) and “tarty” (if you’re a woman).

If flirting doesn’t come naturally to you, you can learn to flirt by building your confidence, believing in yourself and interacting with other people.

Here are some basic flirting tips which can be practiced anywhere.

1. Have Fun!

Flirting is fun, but only if you don’t take it too seriously. Most of the time, you’ll just flirt with someone for a short time and then maybe never talk to them again. If you always go into flirting expecting to date or even marry the person you’re flirting with, you’re going to be very disappointed–and you’ll probably seem a little desperate. Remember, you’re just flirting

2. Work on your confidence and don’t become a victim

Even the most confident people have insecurities. At some point in any of our lives, we may feel we lack something. That is reality. Learn that life is full of bumps down the road.

Unfortunately, life tends to slap us all around a bit  from time to time but it’s important to not let these things bring us down for too long.

Everyone is good at something, so discover the things at which you excel, then focus on your talents. Give yourself permission to take pride in them. Give yourself credit for your successes. Inferiority is a state of mind in which you’ve declared yourself a victim.

3. Fake it till you make it

Along the same lines of smiling to make yourself feel happy, acting confident might actually make you believe it. Pretend you’re a completely confident version of you; go through the motions and see how you feel! What have you got to lose?

4. Pay a compliment and receive a smile!

A genuine compliment costs nothing and yet can make someone feel so special. If someone looks great, tell them! If someone has achieved something to be proud of, tell them! Once you start making someone feel good about themselves, they are more likely to want to spend more time with you! And if someone pays you a compliment, be proud of the compliment and say “Thank you”!

5. Eye to Eye Contact

Some people struggle to make eye contact with others, which is a basic component of social interaction. Failing to make eye contact suggests to some that you’re shy; to others, it indicates rudeness or boredom. Some people have the opposite problem.

Making eye contact for a long time can indicate you’re very outgoing; to others it indicates aggression and over-confidence.

This skill is especially important when you are at a job interview; the employer will think you’re hiding something or are not confident, and most likely they won’t hire you. Although this process is as natural as breathing for many people, it’s difficult for some.

6. Pitch your voice.

Learn to vary the tone, pitch and speed of your voice. A voice rich in tones sounds far more interesting than one dull note!

7. Listen

A good flirt has the ability to get people to open up and talk about themselves.

Stop talking and try to be silent. It might sound obvious and trite, but one of the biggest obstacles to listening, for many people, is resisting the impulse to ‘chime in’. Many people think that silence is awkward, and want to fill it in with their own thoughts. Likewise, many think that empathy means sharing with the listener similar experiences that the listener has had. Both can be helpful, but they are easily abused. Put aside your own needs, and wait for the other person to talk at their own pace.

8. Move your body!

It is often said that in face-to-face communications, the words we speak actually account for less than 10% of the message that we convey, while body language accounts for more than half of our message (our tone of voice supposedly communicates the rest).Body language is important, and if your words say one thing but your body says another, the person you are speaking to is more likely to believe the message your body is communicating.

9. Smile, Smile, Smile!

Make your smile contagious! The more you smile the more people will want to know you and be around you!

10. Don’t be rude!

Flirting does not involve being sexually explicit! Nor does it involve being offensive if someone rejects your advances. If you have been flirting with someone and are not receiving positive feedback don’t get disheartened or take it personally, move on to the next person! You may want to consider a different approach if you are getting a lot of rejections.

Final Thoughts

Most flirting is just harmless fun, and nothing will ever come of it. Every now and then, though, you’ll meet someone who you’d like to see again and who you think would also like to see you again.

Flirting is, after all, a type of courting ritual, a way to meet potential boyfriends or girlfriends, maybe even your future spouse. Don’t worry about wedding plans just yet, though; start by getting the person’s phone number.

For most people, this is the hard part, because you have to actually make your intentions known, and in doing so you risk rejection. Be brave.

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Finding something new and interesting to do for your date night can be a challenge.

It’s so easy to get stuck in a rut or to avoid date night altogether because you think you need to spend a fortune to have a good time. This simply isn’t true.

1. Play board and card games.

A little playful competitiveness will make things more fun. You can also add twists by saying “If I win this game, you have to do — for me.”

Playing games is becoming a lost art however it can be a foundation for greater conversation and learning more about your partner.

There are a lot of good board games around these days mostly coming out of Europe that are a lot of fun. Some bars are even starting to have game nights where people gather together and play board games.  I’ve had a few game night dates and have found them very enjoyable and fun.

2. Surprise your partner by making the ordinary a little more unique.

If he or she is enjoying a good book, remove the bookmark and replace it with a note that says, “I bet you’ll never guess where I’ve hidden your bookmark.” If they always turn the TV on when they come home from work, tape a note around the television that says, “Wouldn’t you rather turn me on?” instead.  Yes it’s a little cheesy, but have fun with it.

3. Generating significant memories is another way to be romantic on a budget.

Life is full oh AH HA moments and these are usually the things we talk about and share. Creating these moments is not just about the two of you sitting around and waiting for them to happen.

They happen when you get out and experience life. It may be helping others through charity work, just mingling with people in places you would not normally go.

There was a great program on TV called “People on the Streets” where someone was randomly picked on the street and followed  to learn more about them. Every episode was amazing seeing the differences and experiences we all have.

4. As a surprise, buy that movie and recreate that specific romantic kiss

Look for movies that you’ll both enjoy. Get them at the library, where you can rent them for free or at low cost. Cuddle up together under a cozy blanket and make hot chocolate or tea if it’s cold outside. If it’s warm, make iced tea or a special cocktail. Burn some incense or scented candles to improve the ambiance.

5. If you want to plan the ultimate romantic evening but funds are low, shut down the electricity (it is up to you whether or not you tell him or her!). You won’t have any distractions or heat, so it is up to both of you to maintain the warmth and entertain each other.

6. Learn something “new” together

Take dance lessons, take an art class or learn to ice skate together! Take a day trip to a new place neither of you have ever visited before. If you look back on your life, you probably connected with people whom you shared new events or experiences, something you experienced together for the first time. Those experiences create closeness. Find something that can be a “first” for the two of you. You might also develop a new interest the two of you can enjoy!

Relationships — of all kinds — are like sand held in your hand.

Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is.

The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers.

You may hold on to some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that.

Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact.

But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost. — Kaleel Jamison

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Male and Female Attraction through Pheromones

The other day I was walking down the street trying to clear my head and a young lady walked by that caught my attention. She was not the most beautiful woman I had seen but for some reason my attention was captured by her attractiveness.

This happens quite often, and no I am not a stalker, however since writing these articles I have started to notice triggers that catch my attention. It maybe a close encounter, it may be a casual interaction but I am starting to notice that different things catch my attention.

Before I was just stumbling through life, but on closer investigation I have found that there are a lot of unconscious things that influence how we feel and act.

Colors, smells, touch, sounds and visual senses can call up long forgotten memories, create feelings and emotions that sometimes we never knew were there. Sometimes it can be a bit scary and other times create great joy.

Many of these are working on an unconscious level however once to understand they are there they become more recognizable.

All these things have a great part to play in finding a mate of the opposite sex. Apart from the natural desire to find a mating partner, the pheromones also serve the purpose of communicating a fight or flight signal.

Human Pheromones

The existence of human pheromones was found in 1986 and since then has become an industry in itself.

The manufacturing of pheromones has become a multi-million dollar business. Companies and researchers are continually looking for new ways to trigger different responses and the research on Pheromones has produced some interesting results.

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Selective Pheromones

While male pheromones have been given the name of androstenone, women who produce higher than average amounts of copulins (women pheromones) have greater success with men.

By applying a female Pheromone fragrance women can then increase their chances of attracting the right man.

How Pheromones Are Used for Attracting Males

In order to compete with other women around an intended male partner, it will be necessary to get the attention of the male. Dressing is one way of doing it, but when you are in the company of other females who are all similarly dressed, you might find that pheromones work on a subconscious level without a man knowing it. He is attracted to you by the action of pheromones and only to you. Make sure that your other actions do not impede the work of pheromones.

Since the pheromones work on a subconscious level without the male even knowing it, it is a greater attracting force than your actions. It is a magnet working for you and as you get to know your man better, you will be able to add to that bond of attraction, you have everything working for you and no negative factors. Hence pheromones work for you.

The Study of Pheromones

According to Vienna University biologists, Karl Grammer and Astrid Jtte, copulins block a mans ability to judge a woman’s attractiveness by the way she looks and the sound of her voice. Grammer and Jtte conducted a study, wherein they exposed 66 men (unknowingly) to copulins. They then showed them pictures of women and asked them to rate the attractiveness of each woman. They rated all the women as being significantly more attractive to them when they were exposed to pheromones.

The Best way to Wear Pheromone

Femininity is the best pheromone and added to it is the pheromone that you wear on your body. The best way to use the pheromone is to apply it like you would a perfume and then allow the pheromones to work for you. Physical intimacy is not necessary but you have to be within 2 to 7 feet for pheromones to be effective. The remote control of pheromones will make men be attracted to you without knowing it and remain attracted to you as long as you want it.

Wearing female pheromones is not an end all activity. Without the pleasant personality and natural attraction it might not work well, but when you are competing with equals, wearing a pheromone will definitely give you the edge.

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Pheromones are defined as “a naturally occurring chemical that is excreted by animals and insects that influences the behavior of others often in the form of attraction”

There are a variety of pheromones which include alarm pheromones, sex pheromones, food trail pheromones and a host of others. The main research on Pheromones has to do with sexual attraction.

Have you even entered a lift with someone who is wearing a strong scent. It can either arouse, disgust or irritate. This is a conscious reaction. Pheromones work in exactly the same way but on an unconscious level.

Meaning of Pheromone

The word “pheromone” comes from the Greek word “pheran” which means to transfer and “horman” which means to excite. As humans we have our five senses and many of the things that excite these senses we are unaware of.

Have you ever walked into a room and brushed by a person or noticed someone and then had the feeling you just wanted to get to know them. It is often because unconscious smells, sight and chemicals that create this sense of attraction. In many cases it could be the Pheromones that the person is producing.

Pheromones are natural scents that both human beings and animals release in their saliva, perspiration and tears. The scent from these chemicals sends signals to the opposite sex about health, mood, status and sexual drive.

However no one can actually smell these chemicals but instead they are detected on a subliminal level through our VNO system (or vomeronasal organ). The VNO system is made up of a small invisible receptor buried deep in the nose cavity which is able to distinguish pheromones and then send the signal to the part of the brain known as the hypothalamus.

The VNO was first discovered in 1703 by F. Ruysch. Pheromones are also detected by something called the Jacobson’s organ which is located between the nose and the mouth. Generally speaking the more sex chemicals an individual secretes, the more sought after by the opposite sex they become.

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Research done after 1986, found that pheromones do have a place in human sexual behavior and can be found in the highest quantities in sweat. However by showering and using many toiletry products, the action of these naturally occurring chemicals in the body is dulled. In men the chemical in human pheromones contains Androstenol and in women it is Andtrostenol.

Since we detect pheromones on a subconscious level manufactures have started to incorporate Pheremones into fragrances. This is what some people call layered perfumes. They are best applied in small amounts either to the neck or wrists.

The use of various fragrances to influence the human disposition and emotions has been around a long time, with studies to broaden our understanding of these effects spanning many centuries. Mostly they were used instead of bathing or to create a certain atmosphere. Many countries use them for religious purposes and have only been recently used in western countries to create atmosphere in homes and public places.

Once applied to skin, human pheromones usually last about four to six hours or thereabouts. One bottle of human pheromones could effectively last, if used regularly, for four to six weeks. Pheromones do not need to be reapplied as often as other fragrances to work properly.

Due to the research on human pheromones, many people have come to conclude that the sexiest part of us, males and females alike, is our noses and that we all have a unique “special sexy scent” that is unlike anyone else’s. Just as our pheromones can cause us to be attracted to another person they can also cause us to be turned off by someone else. Our body chemistry is intimately tied in with our sexual yearnings.

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One of the most well known pheromone enhanced scents is called “Realm” and is manufactured by the Erox Corporation. Anatomist David L. Berliner created the scent in 1989 when he discovered that the addition of human pheromones to scents helped boost the self-confidence levels of men and also gave them a better sense of well being in relation to their interactions with women.

More scents with human pheromones are now available on the market and the research into whether pheromones play a role in getting men and women together, and keeping them attracted to one another, are advancing all of the time.

Pheromones are the smells that tell us unconsciously about  people. They work for relationships and have many other functions.

Human pheromones are related to the gender of a person.

There are many differences between males and females and each also has their own set of Pheromones.

People respond to others peoples Pheromones and quite often we keep so clean that these natural forces don’t work. Now I am not saying don’t have a shower or bath however remember that to much cleansing can work against you as well.  The exact effect of human pheromones is not known, but studies have proven they are effective.

What are Human Pheromones

As humans we tend to forget that we are also animals (some more so than others) and just like animals it is the Pheromones or scents that we give off that creates attraction.  If you have ever travelled you will have noticed that different cultures have different smells.

Chineese sometimes find western smell unusual because we eat so much dairy food. A trip to the pacific Islands will have your nostrils flaring with a coconut smell and of course Asia has its own unique smells.

In the animal world males know when females are ready to mate through smells.

So Pheromones are simply those unconscious smells that lead to attraction.

Today, though, human pheromones have been bottled and sold as the sure proof way to get a date.

Everyone has likely responded to a pheromone. There are pheromones that signal the flight or fight sense. When someone is scared it is the pheromones that cause others to run too.

Pheromones can be very strong, especially human pheromones signaling attraction.

Most of the work with pheromones has been recognizing how different species  react to them. The affect of pheromones is much easier to identify in these species than in humans. For example, dogs mark their territory with pheromones. Insects make paths with pheromones. They are very important to an animal or insects daily life, humans on the other hand rarely know how they affect their daily life.

Most of the findings are linked to the sex pheromones as they are the easiest to determine and watch. There have been tests to see the response pheromones cause in the human body.

Human pheromones are something we all have. They impact our lives even though we are probably not aware of how they do so. Pheromones are known to be strong and important influencers in arousal and sexual attraction, so it can’t hurt to experiment for yourself to see if you notice any difference.

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